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Nudist Options by Nekidgamer

From the editor: While browsing our archive I came across this post by our very first female contributor @nekidgamer who is not currently contributing but shared this gem about her clothes free experience we believe needed to be read. I hope you agree.

I have always been a home nudist , and my earliest experience was skinny dipping with friends in a local pond. I also would go to friends houses as a teen for sleepovers and we all would skinny dip in the pool or run in the sprinklers.

This last year was my first resort experience and I loved it. I would love to try out different nudist and clothing optional venues but I must admit there is some trepidation. I know this is not very acceptable by some nudist to say but I am uncomfortable with the idea of family resorts. I am concerned with the fact of creepy people checking out kids at resorts and you can’t say there are no pedophiles at nudist resorts its statistically impossible . I’ve met a few so called male nudist who made inappropriate comments about children giving them erections , or women liking the young boys bodies. I figure if I wouldn’t bring my daughter there then I shouldn’t be there either. I prefer to stay with adults maybe that’s a bit overly cautious but that’s how I feel. I personally think family resorts should have full criminal checks to be members or guests.

There are also the nudist resorts with more of a swinger party atmosphere and if that’s what you’re looking for then go for it. It personally isn’t for me I don’t care for the atmosphere or the need for free clinic visits. Plus I have had friends who went to them and most of the stories were centered around drama. I hate drama that’s what family is for I get to choose my friends.

I go to resorts to get away and relax away from drama and stress. I am not one of those people who believe being a nudist makes you be free of ever having a sexual thought about another nudist I just choose to keep it that a thought. Nudity should not always be associated with sex that’s a fact but we are all still sexual beings who have thoughts and desires. I admire the view of beautiful people as I admire a beautiful sunset. I’m past my time of party stage so I have no interest in getting drunk and being the latest party favor. I like to be relaxed , lay out , visit with friends or just read a book best of all I love to skinny dip.

There are a few things I would like to try nude hiking for one it sounds invigorating and fun even if my shallow side smirks at the idea of being naked in tennis shoes. I also would love to go to a beach and do some body surfing though you prob wont see me with the families.

I did check out some nude hiking groups and found there isn’t much inclusion. Why we must separate into couples, singles , gay and lesbian is beyond me . If we are all adults who I sleep with shouldn’t matter when going together on a nude hike . There needs to be more inclusion in the nudist community as long as everyone treats each other with respect that’s all that should matter. I would love to find more nudist friends to have dinner parties or pool parties with . I’m not interested in swinging just alternative place to be nude other than resorts . I even like the idea of nude driving though for women especially ones like me with large breast I can see the many obstacles. I love my life and the freedom of being nude I just want more opportunities to express that side of me.

2 Comments

  1. sassycoupleok says

    A very nice perspective from a woman’s view and so right on many things. We have many friends at the resort but very few nude social friends outside of it. We would to socialize with others like small dinner parties or a wine night.

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  2. I’m really glad this was reposted from the archives. I would also have loved to hear more from her. I love her unapologetic honest share of thoughts, especially being a woman and just being direct about her feelings. Such an amazing asset especially, in my opinion, in this arena where it’s generally not common to have female voices… And a slew of paternalistic condescending judgmental remarks from men to women (as I have and continue to experience, though not bothered by the, the way I was in the beginning).

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