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Serenity I like to be clothes free my partner not so much

Q */ What do you do if your partner isn’t into nudism? How do you compromise? — @anna4anybody (Twitter) 

A */ I don’t force it. Leaving my partner to come around in their own time is crucial. I won’t sacrifice my routine or my day to day nudism habits to make anyone more comfortable, or enforce rules at home. But in most cases I’ve found my partners become more open to the idea of joining me because I’m comfortable and don’t make a big deal out of it.

 Compromises tend to be a series of trial and error. It’s key to take small steps at home, like sleeping naked, cooking, watching tv – and not surprise them with a trip to a naturist resort for vacation.
 Having discussions before I make a step into dating someone, I address all my concerns. So there aren’t any surprises about my lifestyle.
*/Serenity

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  1. I have finally come out about my being a nudist. My girl friend won’t come around to it very much, even less when I mention to her, that I would like to go to a nudist camp/resort. She doesn’t like the idea of me going around “naked” in front of other people. Events in her life before I meet her, has left a “sour” feeling in her, about this subject. I don’t what to make her upset, or leave me, but it’s something that I have been wanting to do for some time. I explained to her the way these places have explicit rules of conduct. She refuses to listen to me at times. Does anyone in the naturist community have any advise or suggestions? Any help or guidance would be much appreciated.

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